Children & Disasters
Disasters may strike quickly and without warning. These events can be frightening for adults, but they are traumatic
for children if they don't know what to do.
During a disaster, your family may have to leave your home and daily routine. Children may become anxious, confused, or
frightened. It is important to give children guidance that will help them reduce their fears.
Children and Their Response to Disaster
Children depend on daily routines: They wake up, eat
breakfast, go to school, play with friends. When emergencies or disasters interrupt this routine, children may become anxious.
In a disaster, they'll look to you and other adults for help. How you react to an
emergency gives them clues on how to act. If you react with alarm, a child may become more scared. They see our fear as proof that the danger is real. If you
seem overcome with a sense of loss, a child may feel their losses more strongly.
Children's fears also may stem from their imagination, and you should take these
feelings seriously. A child who feels afraid is afraid. Your words and actions can provide reassurance. When talking with your child, be sure to present a realistic picture that is both honest and manageable.
Feelings of fear are healthy and natural for adults and children. But as an adult, you
need to keep control of the situation. When you're sure that danger has passed, concentrate on your child's emotional needs by asking the child what's uppermost in
his or her mind. Having children participate in the family's recovery activities will help them feel that their life will return to "normal." Your response during this time may have a lasting impact.
Be aware that after a disaster, children are most afraid that--
- The event will happen again.
- Someone will be injured or killed.
- They will be separated from the family.
- They will be left alone.
Advice to Parents
Prepare for Disaster
You can create a Family Disaster Plan and practice it so that everyone will remember what to do when a disaster does occur.
Contact your local emergency management or civil defense office, or your local Red
Cross chapter for materials that describe how your family can create a disaster plan. Everyone in the household, including children, should play a part in the family's response and recovery efforts.
Teach your child how to recognize danger signals. Make sure your child knows what
smoke detectors, fire alarms and local community warning systems (horns, sirens) sound like.
Explain how to call for help. Teach your child how and when to call for help. Check
the telephone directory for local emergency phone numbers and post these phone numbers by all telephones. If you live in a 9-1-1 service area, tell your child to call
9-1-1. Even very young children can be taught how and when to call for emergency assistance.
Help your child memorize important family information. Children should memorize
their family name, address and phone number. They should also know where to meet in case of an emergency. Some children may not be old enough to memorize
the information. They could carry a small index card that lists emergency information to give to an adult or babysitter.
After the Disaster: Time for Recovery
Immediately after the disaster, try to reduce your child's fear and anxiety.
Keep the family together. While you look for housing and assistance, you may want
to leave your children with relatives or friends. Instead, keep the family together as much as possible and make children a part of what you are doing to get the family
back on its feet. Children get anxious, and they'll worry that their parents won't return.
Calmly and firmly explain the situation. As best as you can, tell children what you
know about the disaster. Explain what will happen next. For example, say, "Tonight, we will all stay together in the shelter." Get down to the child's eye level and talk to him or her.
Encourage children to talk. Let children talk about the disaster and ask questions as
much as they want. Encourage children to describe what they're feeling. Listen to what they say. If possible, include the entire family in the discussion.
Include children in recovery activities. Give children chores that are their
responsibility. This will help children feel they are part of the recovery. Having a task will help them understand that everything will be all right.
You can help children cope by understanding what causes their anxieties and fears.
Reassure them with firmness and love. Your children will realize that life will eventually return to normal. If a child does not respond to the above suggestions,
seek help from a mental health specialist or a member of the clergy.
The text on this page is in the public domain. We request that attribution to this
information be given as follows: From "Helping Children Cope With Disaster." developed by the Federal Emergency Management Agency and the American Red Cross.